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Hire Ben to Help You Stop Bullies
If you want the wisdom and skills to do your best resolutely, diligently and effectively—good for you—you’ve come to the right place! Hire me to speak for your association or group so we can eliminate the high cost of low attitudes. Hire me for expert, individually tailored implementation through:
- Coaching.
- Consulting.
- Speaking and Presenting.
Clients use my expertise to stop bullying in the workplace as well as in family and personal relations….yes, the bullying does not stop at the front door!
My methods and coaching have helped people take charge of their lives—their time, effort and personal space—even though they never had before and thought they couldn’t.
End hostility, intimidation and verbal and emotional abuse at work and at home. Create bully-free relationships with husbands, wives, partners, brothers, sisters, children, teens, friends, parents, bosses, co-workers and employees:
- Stop controllers, critics, manipulators, stealth bullies, emotional intimidators, exploders, pushy perfectionists, nit-picking control freaks, boundary pushers, relentless arguers, know-it-alls and finger-pointing blamers.
- Stop putdowns, verbal abuse, harassment, bad attitudes, difficult people, negative complainers, gossip, passive-aggressives, conflict avoidant managers, hyper-sensitive “Professional Victims” and jerks.
- Stop wasting time on splinters, rotten apples and cancers—at all levels in your organization and in your family life.
- Stop being a victim of your own self-doubt and self-bullying.
- Increase your independence, confidence and self-esteem.
Stop wishing for your problems to go away and take effective action.
Hire me and use the Bullies Be Gone system to take effective action instead of merely:
- Giving in to fear, intimidation or blackmail.
- Minimizing, avoiding, ignoring or condoning bullying.
- Begging, bribing or appeasing relentless bullies.
- Encouraging endless complaining.
- Accepting apologies, excuses, justifications and promises...repeatedly.
You are not helpless:
- Even if you’ve never succeeded before—create the boundaries you need.
- Learn what you can do that bullies will hate and respect—and give in to.
- Take charge of yourself and your life—and still be a good, respected person.
I provide realistic, step-by-step strategies and plans for creating a bully-free personal space – at home and even in hostile workplaces.
This system is different from the same old psychoanalysis and therapy.
Use the Bullies Be Gone system of books and CDs, and my speaking, coaching and consulting to implement the changes you want to make. Be warned: this system will lead you to take effective action to create bully-free relationships.
- If you want someone to help you whine, complain and agonize about the unfairness of life or why it’s too hard for you to do what you want—this program is not for you.
- If you think that wishing will make it so—these techniques are not for you.
- If you think that you can act kindly enough to convert predators so they act sweet in return—these tips are not for you.
- If you think one size fits all—this consulting is not for you.
- If you want magical thinking that will give results instantly, easily and with no discomfort to bullies—this coaching is not for you.
These strategies and techniques are not theories. This system comes from my observations, and it will work to help you:
- End your frustration and pain.
- Get over your resistance, hesitation and blocks.
- Create a joyous bully-free environment.
- Bring out the best in yourself and other people.
I work with people who can be energized to face their challenges.
I work with people who want to be courageous, disciplined and skillful enough to succeed.
I work only with people who are thrilled with results.
Share proven techniques to deal with bullies of all forms; in personal relationships and at work – handling aggressive co-workers and oppressive managers, and dealing with hostile workplaces.
These methods work—they have been tested with people like you.
Ben is a member of the National Speakers Association and NSA-Colorado
Hire Dr. Ben and get the Bullies Be Gone system and start taking charge of your life today!